Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
Hi, I'm new and never done anything like this before but I hope this helps me. I got drunk mostly because I was going to break up with my boyfriend and I wanted to have fun. A person that I had trusted and known my whole life was at this party. He was like a brother. At the end of the day I told him about my issues with my boyfriend. And he was there when I needed it. Still kinda drunk, we started to make out and do stuff but then I said no and he kept saying come on. And I continued. I started to get dry and it was hurting but he kept trying to make me wet even when I said no and was doing things I didn't like. I don't know why I continued. I don't know if that's rape. I didn't see it that way but since 2 people told me, I'm confused and I don't know how to deal with it. Was it?
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Middy is off for a bit so if anyone needs a CL please just give me a shoutSending a big hug...xo
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I was sexually assaulted as a kid. I find it hard to accept that another person's actions caused me so much harm. He made bad choices and now I am paying the price. Stupid PTSD!
1. you were drunk..
2. you came to him while he was drunk... and most people tend to be a whole different person when there drunk or high...
3. you said no... soo like I said it depends.... if he is your best friend he's like a brother to you maybe you should talk to him about it...
You said no. That should've been the end of it. I don't care about blue balls. My rapist said "you can't just leave me like this."
You feel betrayed. You feel abused. I am so sorry this happened to you. Over time we can learn to trust again. It won't be like this forever.
Hugs <3
Drink has nothing to do with it, you said no, he should stop... a real gentleman ( my opinion only) wouldn’t had started kissing/making out to begin with.. that’s the way to protect the other one..
if your getting ready to leave a party, and someone takes your car keys, they’re trying to protect you from doing anything stupid...
had he stopped before it started.. he would’ve been protecting you..
Either way, none of this is your fault.
You said no, he continued.. that’s his fault.
It wasn’t your fault he pressured you to continue, that’s on him. He didn’t care about hurting you, he wanted to be “satisfied”..
We’re here if you wanna talk more.
Hang in there.. you’re much stronger than you think!!
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