Sexual Abuse Support Group
Sexual abuse is a relative cultural term used to describe sexual relations and behavior between two or more parties which are considered criminally and/or morally offensive. Different types of sexual abuse involve: Non-consensual, forced physical sexual behavior such as rape, incest or sexual assault, or psychological forms of abuse, such as verbal sexual behavior or...
please someone help me!! i can't do this anymore! i can't be in the same house as him! this is soo hard for me. i'm giving up and i don't want to but i dont' know what else to do. im tired of being scared of never being happy anymore. i don't know what to do anymore. i'm so alone.
deleted_user
how can i help
kayrl
i really don't know i just need someone
deleted_user
Is there someplace else you can stay where you would be safe?
kayrl
i dont know
deleted_user
friends or another relative maybe? Is this person who hurt you live there all the time or there for a visit?
kayrl
idk, i don't think he's staying here but he's just here till he can find a place or something but he's not looking very hard!
deleted_user
he shouldn't be there at all, is your family aware of what he has done to you? Honey you need to make arrangements with someone else while he is there, either a friend or another family member, explain the situation they will be more than happy to help you out.
kayrl
yes they know and they know i don't like him being home. i just emailed a friend. i can't ask in person. this way it's done and i can't take it back. she will say yes i just feel bad about asking. i feel like i'm a burden on them.
deleted_user
i know i have said this before is there a crisis center there you could call because you are in crisis and they could help
kayrl
no there's not
deleted_user
honey if your friends feel like i do then they will tell you you are not a burden but a joy because a friend is always a joy and always welcome i wish i were close so i could be of more help and could wrap you in a hug
deleted_user
you are not being a burden and they will not look at it that way, and your parents should not be letting him stay there in the first place. Let them know that you are going to stay with friends until he is out of the house, your safety and well being is TOP PRIORITY!!!!!!
kayrl
thanks gemmom
kayrl
i'll have to see what my friend say's but i'm scared to tell them that i'm staying with her.
deleted_user
no problem if you don't mind my asking whar town and state do you live in
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