Sexless Marriage Community Group
This group is for those people who find themselves married to a partner who has little or no interest in having a sexual relationship. This can be very painful for the other partner and leave them feeling rejected, unloved and unwanted. This is a group to provide support for this very painful and very private issue.
I find myself married to a man who has little interest in sex. He is a loving and affectionate person, often hugging and kissing me....but that's as far as he wants to go. We've only been married for 3 months and this issue is tearing me apart.
I love him very much, but didn't bargain on a sexless marriage.
We have sex, but only when I iniate it... and never more than once a week. When we do have sex, I feel like he only does it to placate me... not because he wants to.
He says its not me, that he just has no desire anymore.... does this sound familar?
I love him very much, but didn't bargain on a sexless marriage.
We have sex, but only when I iniate it... and never more than once a week. When we do have sex, I feel like he only does it to placate me... not because he wants to.
He says its not me, that he just has no desire anymore.... does this sound familar?
I realized the other day that so far this year we've only been intimate 5 or six times and it's now June. We never did anything at all during the month of March. If I don't let him know that I want to have sex, he won't even bring it up.
I know that he thinks about it because he's had erotic dreams while laying right next to me. If I ask him about them, he says that he doesn't remember anything about them.
We have an age difference around 6 years or so, I'm 34 and he's 41. He'd rather go work out or write on the computer rather than have sex with me. It's very frustrating and extremely hurtful.
I've gone through a full range of emotions from confusion, sadness, and anger. I know that I am an attractive woman, this is evident from the interest and comments I receive from men outside of my relationship. I believe in having excellent hygiene so I keep myself clean and attractive for my husband but he just doesn't seem to want to have sex.