Hey WinterRose111, I understand this completely. I gave my heart to a girl who I thought finally changed her mind about me. I gave her another chance only to find myself heartbroken all over again. I think its so crazy how I am always thinking about her and how she can just forget about me. I turned to porn as a result too because for a second I felt good but later I would have so much guilt and feel even worse. I'm here if you want to talk about it. I think the most important thing is that we all learn to lean on each other and hold each other accountable. I'm here for you, friend!

I'm so sorry that you had to go through that. Some people do seem oblivious to the way others feel about them; some simply don't quite know how to handle the pressure of real feelings....There are so many reasons for heartache. The last thing we want is to keep hurting our own mental health because of this pain. I'm so glad you're here, I'm glad I'm here and that everyone who needs to help and share around this issue is able to do so.
And I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for your kind words. I needed a friend and you were so helpful. I truly wish you the love you deserve, and deep, lasting healing.

Well thank you for the kind words, I really do appreciate it and I hope you (as well as everyone else) finds exactly what their looking for. How are you feeling today? I kinda had urges to find something to watch today and still feel strong urge now but I feel the more we talk about it with each other the more we can lean on each other to hold accountable. I really like your vibes and please feel free to message me if you'd like to talk more about it!

I agree that accountability is a huge help. I don't know how people would change and grow without it! Yes, I'm totally open and thank you for the kindness.

I am sorry for the stress of your loneliness. You are correct that sometimes people cope with it through porn. It’s easy to lose out on the human connection.

I hope you find the measure of peace that you are looking for.

ILguy, thank you so much. I think I'm starting to come out of that bad place a bit. Many thanks and I wish you all the best.

You are welcome WinterRose111 and it is good to hear that you’re starting to come out of your bad place.

I wish you the best as well and I hope that you get that particular person who you are looking for.

Many thanks and warm wishes.