Sex On The Brain Community Group
A place for those of us with non existent (or dwindling) sex lives to gather. Whether it is to share just how you are feeling or what you miss, or crave or fantasize about (or perhaps have tried with unexpected results?)… I am hoping to find somewhere for those of us fellow "horntoads" to come and chat when we are incredibly lonely and our toys are not enough to keep...

I want a woman who accepts a man who cares and who is kind. By chance I was to find a woman who understands this trait in a man, I would loudly sing and maybe it would be on key, a song lyric to everyone I see. That lyric is from 2009 by John Mellencamp and goes like this. "I saw you first!" Then I would want her to take my hand and teach me her kindness. The bedroom is now captive for the ride.
It's not all about what I want in a woman. it's also what I want to feel with a woman. I want to feel with a woman what Mellencamp sang right before the line I would shout to everyone and is the reason I would shout it:
"She stirs the ice in her glass with her elegant finger
I want to be what she's drinking, yeah I just want to be"
Because she gets that feeling too!
For God's sake, how hard can that be? I find a woman like that almost impossible to find Simply put, logic tells me I want a magical woman... right now...
It's probably not healthy for either side-- for us to crave and desire so badly or for you to try to stuff those same urges.
I want someone to tell me what they want.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dlEdFJpQ8-c
I don’t deny that I would like a man who is dominant but whips and chains are beyond what I would want. Being held down, an ass smack or hair pull I could handle. That would be about it, no pain thanks!