Sex On The Brain Community Group
A place for those of us with non existent (or dwindling) sex lives to gather. Whether it is to share just how you are feeling or what you miss, or crave or fantasize about (or perhaps have tried with unexpected results?)… I am hoping to find somewhere for those of us fellow "horntoads" to come and chat when we are incredibly lonely and our toys are not enough to keep...
WARNING-- May be too graphic for some...
After chatting with so many (and now beginning to search another dating site) I seem to come across so many men who want a submissive woman. Don't get me wrong, I would not mind trying that a time or two but when I did say that to one, he got very excited and wanted to meet the next day. After talking on the phone, it was clear he was very much a control freak and his thinking was to see if we are sexually compatible before attempting a relationship. (To me rather backwards "apples before the cart" thinking) He was mid 50s.
Some younger guys I have chatted with do seem to get off with the idea of face fucking and beating their cocks before cumming on your face. (A bit more common and preferred is on your boobs)I have only been with 3 men (actually forgot a 4th who was indeed forgettable and more of an attempt) and have missed out on alot but some simple vanilla sex. In my mind, I am thinking perhaps there is this desire to "mark their territory"? LOL
What ever happened to that incredible desire to be touched. wanted ...hands , lips , tongues exploring every inch of exciting new territory....? I want to find that incredible desire and passion that builds to ripping off clothes, very passionate, swallow your tongue kisses... Perhaps another time wanting the tenderness and to draw out and thoroughly enjoy the tingling senses as another's hands, lips did touch my skin. The pleasure of looking deep into a man's eyes and watching his satisfaction and enjoyment (as well as him seeing mine) as we do take our time and begin a very sensual journey would bring a definite smile to my face and some much needed joy to my soul.
I missed out on so much and while I do have things I would love to try, I don't want to be automatically "tied down" (both literally and figuratively. lol) forever to his personal preference. (When I asked that guy if he always liked things that way with no occasional mixing things up, his response was maybe once in awhile.} To me it seemed clear he was very much the agressor and would continue. For many reasons, he was not "my cup of tea"
I suppose I should be glad men don't want to brand us with a scarlet letter or a branding tattoo. Haha
I am not giving up hope. I am still someone's hot ticket waiting to happen. (And I'll tell you what... I am about ready to explode!!!) Very evil grin here.
PS Anyone who knows me and my very naughty mind knows I am no prude and do have alot of fantasies and desires still in me. One look at Erotica and you can see for yourself. I want a bit more than vanilla. :)
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I invited Bill to have dinner with me last Sunday. He wasn't willing to drive 7 hours to mid Michigan and teased me with his beautiful ribs!!! So, of course I ate alone and had cedar salmon
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check out that smoke ring. It tasted really good. I smothered it with Maulls BBQ sauce which is Local to St. Louis and one of the best I ever had.....
the other things you want I can also want but my girlfriends weight problem is something that prevents me from wanting that I guess because I am not fond of how big she is....it is not something I ever thought I would be in relationship with someone who is this heavy....she is prob 450lbs
You mention the weight. That is something that holds me back. I have some extra pounds as well. (Thankfully not as many as she has) I do not want to wind up with someone who simply deals with that....(but in his mind thinks less of me because of it. ) I need to find someone who will accept and want me just as I am... good, bad and naughty. I have come to see that we all have our shortcomings and our strengths. As a result, I am far more comfortable with someone open and real ... and while they make think they are not worthy or have little to offer, I can see that is often far from the case.
We all have things that others do look for. (I look at eyes and smiles. They tell me alot.)
I think it's the lighting in the pic....or I may have a hint of strawberry blonde mixed in .
Either way...blondes are to have more fun....and can still be feisty. (Big evil grin here)
And why is sex the first and seemingly only thing on their minds?
I don’t get the facial thing. Seems like a porn stunt that just gets repeated. Why leave the paradise between a woman’s legs for the air is beyond me...
But when I say the whole thing, I want to get to know a man first. (Nothing better than a relationship including intimacy and sex.....and a smorgasbord. (Very big grin)
I hardly ever get a reply. Must be doing something on the profile they don't like but I am trying to be honest and not waste my time. But seems to be what I am doing as well as the money! No booty calls yet.
Good luck Kim!