Hang in there Kim. Keep those fantasies going and let's keep talking about them. :)

I would add that I enjoy both- or perhaps "enjoyed" might be a better term, bc as VQ alluded to, some of us are so far out of practice, it's even difficult to imagine. One of the best part about cunnilingus is (was, sadly!) that I was confident that I was skilled enough to be able to give my partner pleasure, & the ED didn't have to be a factor.

I am still hanging in there.... Still fantasizing and hoping some hot passionate sex does come my way one of these days.

Preferably soon. Lol

i love going down on a girl but sadly my gf thinks it's just the grossest thing.. she let me try once when we first starting going out and she almost broke my nose from kicking me in the face trying to scramble to get away from me cause she said it just felt too nasty to have me licking her in the same place she goes to go pee lol..

So needless to say in the almost 19 years we've been together I could prolly count the number of times I've gotten her to go down on me on one hand and even then she says she has to get really really drunk first.. :/

I don't care though.. I still love it to death.. if I ever got the chance to go down on someone else, they'd better pack a lunch cause I'm gonna be there awhile! XD

@ tmiller..... You did give me a very evil grin there. and yes.... another naughty fantasy. (wink, wink) If and when I do find someone again, I have also threatened to lock him away for at least a week. We have to make up for lost time. LOL

@veggiequeen i used to have a friend that wanted me to come move in with her and be her playtoy but she lived overseas so there was just no way. still though it was nice to dream about. we used to fool around on skype but that was a really long time ago. she started seeing some guy so we ended the tomfoolery on cam but we still manage to talk back and forth on facebook which is better than nothing i guess. part of me regrets not saying fuck it and selling my car to pay for a ticket to get to her just to see what might have happened. oh well.. maybe next life. lol

I have some allergic reactions to body perfumes and such, and so if a partner is agreeing and understanding that it isn't thinking her to be unclean or the equal i ask if we can freshen that area in warm water for each other with hot wet wash towels and if wanted after drying massage in a little warmed olive oil or the like. I know that women sometimes trim or shave their privates, but I am fine with soft downy hair there and for myself and just a little freshening for us both.

I enjoy giving oral a bit more that getting it, and like to give that a lot of time eating and manipulating the clit and pussy lips so they have time to engorge with blood and get the clit erect in its hood and building nerve firing to bring on orgasms. I like fingering and catching the clit head and flicking or tugging it between fingers and in my mouth, sucking and licking and tonguing to build its erection, sometimes adding a vibrator at that point, and licking between pussy lips and kissing and tongue thrusting and fingering in the vagina. I 'lick the anus because of the ecoli that is difficult to control there but will finger there as well if we are also going on to anal sex and clean up hands as we go with antiseptic bath wipes so we make that as safe as possible.

I love to have a partner trembling and squirming and moaning with their clit trapped between my teeth and her neck arching, going delightfully out of control with great orgasms. Oral can be SUPER.

correction I DON'T lick the anus because of ecoli concerns.

That does sound heavenly.

PS. I myself have never understood how some can like rimming. (Although 1 did tell me he and his wife did love that as well as anal. They did enemas beforehand)

Forgive me. For me is no more TMI but I forget others may not feel the same.

hey saliva can work pretty good as lube if you dont actually have any KY or whatever and you're in the mood for some spontaneous butt stuff. XD

I love when the woman is so excited as to be making such wetness I can go like
a hungry dog and lap and lap at that and she isn't wanting for lube. If she is of a mind we can set the bed with towels or other such protection and play a bit with inserting or thrusthig a douche wand in her vagina a giving her a rush of warm inside she doesn't have to hold in but gives a bit more intensity quick after and building up again to making more of her own lube. If the woman is of a maturity to not feel she is tight enough for her strongest sensations and she has an enjoyment of anal, this is a good time to but a bullet vibrator or dildo vibrator filling the rectum and making the vagina tighter for her to orgasm wth .more being eaten and fingered or my preference moving into a hard vaginal screwing.

Stupid COVID.. I would love to have my head between a sweet lover's legs finding out what gives us the most in pleasing ourselves with these bits of lusty romping.

You do realize that your very detailed description is doing to us ladies exactly what ours may do for you?
(A very naughty smile here)

I’m all about the woman sitting on my face. IMO, 69, is one of the most unifying acts a couple can do. If she’s not into head, that’s okay too, but there’s no better feeling than having that weight nearly suffocating me, while I use my tongue to pleasure her.