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In a relationship with a man with pedophilia

NeuroNurse
NeuroNurse

hi, I am new here and am not sure if this is the right place for me, but I’m suspecting there may not be a right place for me. I am in a relationship with a pedophile: a man with a sexual deviance who is attracted foremost to young boys (as young as 7-8 and particularly around 12). We try to have an open and honest conversation about those issues and how it affects both our lives and we try to support each other as best we can and we try very hard to have a “normal” life. Is there anyone else who is willingly in a relationship with a pedophile? One who has admitted their sexual orientation to be devious? I’m just at the step of wanting to know if I can find someone like me. Thanks

StrongMom5
StrongMom5
Hi, my husband was arrested for statutory rape last year. The girl was 17 but she lied and said she was 16. She had a 6 month consensual affair with him. When it was over for a year she decided to make the claims, because she had plans to take my life as we are well off.. He is not a pedophile and I am certain he will not do it again, however I can understand a bit of your struggle. I am staying with my husband, it is very hard sometimes, I am still angry he put me and our children in this position. My suggestion is a good counselor who deals with pedophiles and their families. Honesty and communication is a must. If he has urges he needs to have a plan to deal with it appropriately. I think you are right talking to him about it and keeping it out in the open to deal with it head on. Always keep your eyes open. My biggest regret is allowing that girl into our lives when I had that feeling she was trouble. Trust yourself and your gut feeling..