Senior Dating & Sexuality Support Group
This community is intended for senior to discuss senior dating and sexuality, and the specific issues that arise for seniors, such as starting over as a widow or widower.
Okay first before I get started, I do have a trust issue. My Mom abandoned us when I was three months old. I was raised by an abusive controling grandmother. MY moms mother... and after becoming disabled was divorced my my spouse because she was tired of my disability...
After seven years of being online, I've spent the money for dating thingys online, and I've been matched with some of the finest ladies in the whole United States... Yeah Rite...
After several months on the last site Plenty of Fish... seem I can't even raise a email partner lol... I mean what gives... Just because I'm poor don't mean I'm looking for someone to give me hand outs... and just because I'm forced to live on SSI don't mean I'm enjoying it...
So I have to really wonder is it worth it...
It's really easier for me to be alone than to have any faith in women... gotta remember no matter how hard I tried I never pleased my mom or grandmother , and heck the ex didn't even want sex untill I wasn't able lol.. aint life grand... I'm see in a patteren here... and it's the same old chit... no money no funny...
Dropped kicked to the curb...
Oh yeah I was a faithful hubby, worked 14 16 hours a day to pay all those overdrafts and service charges at the bank... never seen so many bouncing checks in my life till I was married... hehehe.. kinda funny now.. I've had one in seven years cause I screwedup... yepp I screw up sometimes... banks love it for sure.. makes em rich.. oooops sorry
After seven years of being online, I've spent the money for dating thingys online, and I've been matched with some of the finest ladies in the whole United States... Yeah Rite...
After several months on the last site Plenty of Fish... seem I can't even raise a email partner lol... I mean what gives... Just because I'm poor don't mean I'm looking for someone to give me hand outs... and just because I'm forced to live on SSI don't mean I'm enjoying it...
So I have to really wonder is it worth it...
It's really easier for me to be alone than to have any faith in women... gotta remember no matter how hard I tried I never pleased my mom or grandmother , and heck the ex didn't even want sex untill I wasn't able lol.. aint life grand... I'm see in a patteren here... and it's the same old chit... no money no funny...
Dropped kicked to the curb...
Oh yeah I was a faithful hubby, worked 14 16 hours a day to pay all those overdrafts and service charges at the bank... never seen so many bouncing checks in my life till I was married... hehehe.. kinda funny now.. I've had one in seven years cause I screwedup... yepp I screw up sometimes... banks love it for sure.. makes em rich.. oooops sorry
New people in our lives want to meet people that want to have fun and want to do new things.... The past is the past.... don't bring it into the new realtionship so fast... Get to know her, take nice romantic walks, share good music...listen to what she tells you, really listen.... good luck my friend
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I feel the same way about men that Russ does about women. I live on social and I have fibromyalgia, but Russ we have loads to offer.
I got ripped off big time by "boyfriends" they think I am an easy target, bcs I am a single mum. The only men I have known have wanted only one thing. Money. I didnt have any then and I don't have any now. Too scared to get out there and date. All the online dating agencies charge loads of money and then only come up with old fat and farty men..