Senior Dating & Sexuality Support Group
This community is intended for senior to discuss senior dating and sexuality, and the specific issues that arise for seniors, such as starting over as a widow or widower.
russ54
Okay, I've read a lot of the discussions, and without meaning any insult. some statements made in these discussion seem a tad bit agressive... a male such as myself might choose to stay out of these dicussion, then again Ya'll didn't know my grandmother lol... Meanest darn Woman I ever met... Love her truly but hey, she da man... just ask my grandpa lol... well any way... there just as many women as men playing games on the internet... it's buyer beware and I've recieved pictures of women or of their daughters because they were hiding from the truth... I don't really care, I just try to be myself, no games too dam old for games, can't run no more, Yeah I'm poor what the hells wrong with that, I aint asking for no bodys money, geesh...oooops soound a little upset there... but I ain't hope ya enjoy hillbilly cause I am a redneck hillbilly trailer trash, fat ugly white boy... how's that for honest??? I am of the opinion that Men, like to think they are in control of things, this is the way we have been taught over the years, problem arise because lots of men are taught that they are better than women, it's not hard to find if you study religion which I have done for four years, it's so sad, cause we suppose to be equal, help mate equal to each other with respect and blah blah blah... you get the picture i think... ok so i'm waistin time with my russells words of witt... which most of you find either stupid or offensive, altho they aren't meant to be... I prefer a more balance view... I believe a woman should be able to achieve any thing she is able too... she should recieve the same pay as a male for doing the same job,,, I would like to see men be more understanding of how women dress to feel good about them selfs, and not to simply arouse the male counter part or parts now I'm being silly... you should also be aware of the fact men don't always practice self control once they are aroused... these things i've observed over the 54 years of my life. Heard in the showers, both in the service or on the jobs I've had... I've been from east coast to west coast, north and south borders of this great country...I may have acquired some wisdom but some time lack the knowledge of how to use it... Yes please be carefull on the internet... don't give too much information, i lost a good friend in Corpus Christy Texas, that was back in 2000 or maybe 1999, been a while, but it do happen...I'm so sorry, my mind wonders around like a little ant sometimes.. here and there... There are good and bad in all of us, sometimes I'm ashamed to be part of the human race... I've pulled my self out of the deepest darkest dungeons life has to offer... I've felt worthless and a burden on my family due to my disability, I've prayed to die and considered self destruction, I found help, and got past the pain, only to suffer pain daily never ending nagging pain,,, It reminds me I am alive,,, I enjoy life,,, I am at peace, with myself and my Creator...
It is good to know that some men think outside of the box society puts us in and see that women are people too not just body parts created for men's pleasure or undesirable after our youth is behind us.
You said, "you should also be aware of the fact men don't always practice self control once they are aroused... these things i've observed over the 54 years of my life" And that is so evident in our world when we see the rape victims, and the men who kill for financial reasons and religious reasons.But for some reason we women want to believe in magic and falling in love without any background information about the individual. Just a feeling "Love" and it can be so dangerous. I just wonder how can you feel safe with a stranger?
Enjoy the way you keep it real Russ and continue your life journey with the peace of God. You really sound like a down to earth nice guy. Stop with the self negativity. You have to love yourself before another can love you right? Have a good day.
Looking at your profile, see that you are a YOUNG looking 54....
I really didn't KNOW that men had Fibro-M until I read your profile......
There are several women at work who have retired because of it; I have it, too, but THANK GOD, there has been no PAIN with it.....
I do look like both of my knees are Canteloupes; kind of hurts my ego a bit as for years I was always known for having GREAT Legs, BUT, once again, no pain.....
I HATE pain,don't you?????..............;-)
From what I can tell, you are a Good Man. You have concern for others, and you have LOVE for others......
NBC's Dateline is forever exposing Perverts and Scam Artists who thrive thru the Internet.....so your advice is VERY Valid!!
There is sooooo much to be said for a person who reaches the point of being at Peace with himself and with God......
Welcome aboard, and jump right on it....
It's nice to have a Man's perspective -- a Man who 'gets' women.......
know what I mean?????
Linda :)