On May 2017 I met a gentleman online on Facebook whose friend request I accepted and literally stalked me by calling me several times a day, leaving messages and claiming that I am not returning his calls.  He wanted to come to NYC from Alaska although he has never been in NYC and resigned from his job to be with me despite me telling him that I don't think it is a good idea because there is no way of knowing whether or not we are compatible on line.  He claimed that it did not make a difference to him that I need to meet him in person.  Also, he asked me to be his darling wife and thathe will pay my salary if I leave work and buy me a brand new car.  I became fearful as I am not a materialistic and rejected his offers.  Almost 2 years later he has not been released from his job because he needed to pay penalties because he works in a highly classified job and has not complied with rules.  Today, I told him not to contact me because it's not working out for me.  Hate to sound selfish, however when I first met him online he asked me to finance his son's birthday because he doesn't have acess to American Bank Accounts from where he is in which I objected and his response to me was "you are more important to me than my son's birthday".  Thoughts?  Opinions?