Oh my god... what kind of therapist does that? That is not right for her to do that.
It's not your fault; she just wasn't the right person to help you. Don't let her discourage you from continuing to get help.

I'm here if you want to talk.

Wow, this is the second time I've seen this on one of these support groups and honestly I have had a therapist tell me that she couldn't do anything further for me either. I think they are insane and should not be in business. They are the ones with problems that is there job and they are failing. Don't be discouraged there are GOOD therapist out there and you deserve to find the right one for you. Hang in there.

"Therapist" should be in quotes - she probably just wants money and doesn't care about people. Get a new therapist, one who truly cares about you!

I unfortunately had a similar situation when I was in 8th grade. It was my second meeting with a counselor and she told me part way through that nothing could be done for a girl like me...I know now that she was wrong and that no one is beyond hope. Don't believe what she said-find someone who is willing to work through your issues with you. There are great people out there who really want to help and I wish I had realized that sooner. I am just now learning to stop believing all of the lies from my past.

That's ridiculous! Don't waste your money on her. It makes me wonder what she is good for. Just try to find a new therapist that's useful and you can build a bond with.

thats awful!! im so sorry you had to go through that. lots of hugs!

yeah it just sucks cause I had started to finally open up to find out nope another person can't handle my stuff. kinda makes me wonder if they can't help than who can. she is like my 30th therapist/counselor. I just keep getting pushed off on someone new everytime I open up. what's worse is she was the trauma therapist. thank you all for your comments on this. I will continued to struggle but I think I'm done with shrinks for awhile there not doing any good at this point for me.

Thats horrible...get a new therapist, there not all like that! I have a huge problem with feeling abandoned too..

My eating disorder therapist I had told me she was frustrated and our session was over and she had to go get her kids and asked me if I wanted to come back (instead of assuming I would since I had been seeing her for months) so I told her no.

It may feel like you are being abandoned, but in reality she just sounds like a horrible therapist!

You are worth so much better than that! I know that you can heal. I believe in you, even if that "therapist" didn't. I'm sorry that you had to go through that. *hugs*

What the hell is wrong with her!? If she knew you were a Si person for a while, why is now she doesn't want to help you? She is supposed to be there for you and be able to help you if she was actually a therapist. Those are the ones that should never be a therapist in the first time. I completly understand why you don't want to see another therapist for a while, just make sure you see one when you are ready. And trust me, you are worth more than how she treated you.
I have had at least 20 therapists tell me I couldn't be helped and that I was worthless and only one of them knew I SIed. My current therapist just learned I SI and he was amazing about it! He asked me, "Is that supposed to make me run for cover, the fact that you SI? I'm not leaving you alone in the dust and you deserve more. You are not crazy and lets work together to help you cut less." You need one like this, everyone does.

What qualifications did she have?

I have been seeing different docs who deal with different issues......

Maybe this person isnt really qualified in that sense, cant see anyone with the right stuff being so silly.

If she was proffesional and she couldnt help you, she should refer you to the most suitable person as doctors or any good doctor is part of a network, national and on a larger scale, even in third world countries.....

Sounds more like my ex than a doctor, LOL....