so i had a doctor's appointment a few days ago.....just an annula check up and when i got home my mom asked me how it was and i saidf it weas good......i said,"dr. *****said congratulations to dad for getting a new job and he's really happy for us and he asked if i was ready to live on my own and i said we all were ready...." my mom said,"well i don't know about THAT..." "what do you mean??" "val, think about it....look what happened....do you really think that you can live on your own??" (in early january i was hospitlizated for a week for suicidal plans, ideations, thoughts, and self injury thoughts, plans and ideations so that's what she was referring to)......i was so angry!!!! and then she said,"you should really think again about moving with me and your dad"......it drove me CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm an adult and i can make choices for myself!!! yes, i have made bad choices, we all do EVERYONE does in their life, but just because i made a few bad choices doesn't mean that i can't be trusted!!!! if someone got drunk would it be fair to say that they shouldn't go to a new year's eve party because there would be alcohol there??? should they stay home or with their parents because they got drunk once??? anyone has similar experiences??? anyone else also get pissed by lack of trust???