I am in a partial hospitalization program and tomorrow is my last day. They want me to go to an inpatient program, but to get into this program you have to be safe around yourself and I know I am not going to be able to tell them that I am going to be able to keep myself from hurting myself. My dad is telling me to lie and tell them that I can keep myself safe so that I can get into that program because it is especially helpful for people who want to self-injure, but they wont let me in if I can't stop myself from self-injuring. Apparently this place helps you not self injure, but you have to be able to not hurt yourself to get in. I do not really understand this. If my therapist at the partial hospitalization program does not believe that I can stay safe from myself, she not only cannot let me into the program, but cannot let me leave the partial hospitalization program without making sure I am safe. If she doesn't believe my lie and knows I am not safe, then she has no choice but to make me go to an ER because my insurance will not pay for any more days at the partial hospitalization place. I know if I go to the ER for a psych evaluation then I will be admitted to a psych ward. I am really worried that she will not believe my lie that I can keep myself safe and that I will have to go to the ER. I guess I just don't know how to feel about this. Should I lie and try to get into the program that will help me the most, or should I just tell her the truth and get sent to an ER?