i am so worried that im going to loose my voluntary youth work job because of my self harm. i dont work directly with the children, just behind the scenes. last week i got so angry and i punched a wall and now i have to have a meeting with my manager tomorrow morning. i am so worried that i am going to be stopped from even doing the work behind the scenes. my manager is also a close friend and is dating my little sister which makes things even harder. he has been there for me since i started harming myself again last year (he wasnt the manager then, just a friend) and spoke to me when i was down and even helped me when i had hurt myself. i didnt want help from him but he said he didnt mind but recently he has changed and has said that he doesnt care about self harming and doesnt want to know and has even said that people who self harm shouldnt be able to work. he wrote a letter to me and said that a meeting had been arranged and that i have to attend. in the letter he didnt say who was attending the meeting or that i was allowed to bring someone with me for support. i tried asking him about it but he refuses to tell me who is going to be there and got a bit irate with me. please, does anyone know if he can do this to me and if he can actually say that i am no longer in the group because of my self harm? any help would be grateful