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Having a really REALLY rough week. I cannot think of a time that i have felt so, drained. Just completely, utterly drained. i feel like such crap because i keep snapping and making a mountain out of an ant hill, over everything.
But i do some opinions on a matter.. I've been dating this boy for three months now.. And since day one I've had one condition, absolutely, under no conditions, may he lie to me. And he has, but its stupid little things.. but the one thing thats not so little is his friend Chris. Chris is an online guy hes been talking to for a couple years. my boyfriend is pansexual.. so im a little worried because all they do is role play and things get very steamy if you catch my drift..
do you guys think this is cheating? Personally i do..
We got into an argument over this earlier and i just can't, anything really. I feel sick and im so tired and hurt.. all i want is to go home and cut :( i just can't wrap my head around life right now.
But i do some opinions on a matter.. I've been dating this boy for three months now.. And since day one I've had one condition, absolutely, under no conditions, may he lie to me. And he has, but its stupid little things.. but the one thing thats not so little is his friend Chris. Chris is an online guy hes been talking to for a couple years. my boyfriend is pansexual.. so im a little worried because all they do is role play and things get very steamy if you catch my drift..
do you guys think this is cheating? Personally i do..
We got into an argument over this earlier and i just can't, anything really. I feel sick and im so tired and hurt.. all i want is to go home and cut :( i just can't wrap my head around life right now.
From what it sounds like, its like he role plays online??? so fake not going out and continuing the role play??? If that is the case it is no different then porn... like to watch and do but nothing really comes out of it...
Advice... instead of fighting, ask to talk about it... Have him explain it to you in a way that will help you understand why he enjoys it, what its all about and what you both can do together.... as a couple... also have him express his feelings and express your feelings on how it makes you feel... Plan this out before you go in for answers... you dont want to start a fight, you want to find understanding and come out with both feeling good.