One option is to tell your school nurse (assuming you are in middle or high school). They should be able to keep your comments confidential. Also, understand that cutting is a symptom of serious distress. Take your own mental health seriously. Even if you don't disclose your cutting, talk to the school counselors about your stress and feeling overwhelmed and see if there is some help they can refer you to. Good luck!

thanks for answering! and yeah im taking it seriously thats why im so afraid, of whats happening of what i might do. and yeah im in highschool but there are no nurses sadly and my counselor is great with academics but not with personal stuff i found out last year (family crisis)

as scary as it may sound..you might just want to tell someone about it. Maybe start small, tell a few friends, and then tell you parents. I couldn't tell my parents, so i told one of my friends, and she helped me alot. She eventually got so worried about me, that she told on me about everything i was doing. But thats what freinds are for. If you don;t have that many close friends, tell a relitive or someone you trust.
You really do need help,and i know exactly how your feeling. We have alot in common, and i didn't tell my parents about cutting and about all the weight i was loosing...my parents are have enough problems as is...i didn't want to put them through anything. But in the end...i have gotten alot out of all the help i have gotten, and i'm really glad mow that i have everything out in the open.

nobody wants to ask for help...but sometimes you just have to...everything will be just fine...i promise

If you can't talk to your counselor, I would definitely talk to a trusted friend. Sadly, some people will treat you differently after they find out so just make sure it is someone who you can trust. If not about the cutting at first, at least talk about being overwhelmed. Because when you take on so much difference and change, it's tough to cope with and cutting isn't the only way to deal with it...
But we have a lot in common, too. I actually told a teacher I was close with and she told the guidance counselor at her school (we're at different schools) and they called my school which called my parents. And it was rough when they knew, but just know that I'm here for you and I understand what you're going through. If you need anyone to talk to, I'm here...

If you can't tell a nurse or counselor, I advise you to tell a trusted teacher at school. I am a teacher myself, and I would be honored if a student trusted something so personal to me. I would probably tell the counselor also, and I would encourage you to come out about your SI to your parents, unless they are abusive or something. If you are cutting, then the emotional pain you feel is extraordinary and you shouldn't have to suffer like that alone. If you can't bring yourself to tell a teacher, then let me know and I'll post a help line you can call anonymously.

thank u all for answering really... well i do have close friends but i can only think of one that can actually understand me and now that u mention it there is one teacher, she is really nice and she might be able to help but i dont know if i have the guts to tell her though. I'll try to tell my friend first and see how it goes, step by step i guess. But i dont know about my parents my mum already thinks the eating disorder and depression is my fault and when i try to talk to her about it she just changes the subject or says she already has too many problems herself. And my dad well he blames himself for what is happening (he is the one that wanted to move) and i dont want to hurt him anymore...

I suggest you tell the teacher that you have been having a hard time, and tell the reasons why, and see how she reacts. Then if all goes well, tell her that you have been depressed and doing some risky things. If that goes well, explain that you even cut yourself once, or something to that effect.

Don't forget, too, that your depression will likely worsen if you don't get real help, preferably from professionals. Depression is a disease, and it's not your fault. If you had cancer, you would see a doctor, right? Taking steps to get help is really important. It will hurt your parents much more if you had to go to the hospital for really hurting yourself, and they never even knew it was so severe. Good luck. I hope you get this under control soon.