Self-Injury Support Group
Whether you or someone you know or love struggles with self-injury, this is the community to discuss your experience, find support, meet others going through the same, and get advice on how to stop. Working together, we can help find alternative coping skills to reduce the urge to self-harm.
I know.. sounds like a cheesy ass b rated movie, but hear me out. We dont just wake up one day and think to ourselves "hey, im going to cut today cause hell, i have nothing else to do.." No it's built up through stress, pain, abuse, and most of all... the lack of strength to fight back anymore. I know this feeling all too well, as do we all those who kill a little piece of themselves every time we hurt ourselves.
Through that pain though we can either learn to become stronger, or we can continue on our destructive paths to losing yourself. I have become one of the few who fights everyday to repair the damage done. Given the choice today, I would gladly fight for my life to go back to "normal" I refuse to be ruled by a governing force to which I cannot even see.
I AM IN CONTROL. To everyone who has hurt themselves, let this be your mantra... repeat it 100 times a day...
I AM IN CONTROL. I ALONE AM IN CONTROL.
Through that pain though we can either learn to become stronger, or we can continue on our destructive paths to losing yourself. I have become one of the few who fights everyday to repair the damage done. Given the choice today, I would gladly fight for my life to go back to "normal" I refuse to be ruled by a governing force to which I cannot even see.
I AM IN CONTROL. To everyone who has hurt themselves, let this be your mantra... repeat it 100 times a day...
I AM IN CONTROL. I ALONE AM IN CONTROL.
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I haven't cutted in almost a year! I'm sooooo close to going back, I need another way to cope....
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yes u are in control we all are we all make the choice to SI , but we have one thing in commen we are not alone in this.
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It's hard not to cut when you are very depressed and just want the pain to go away. Lately my cutting has been worse than other times. What can I do instead of cutting myself to get rid of the pain I feel everyday.
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i started useing glass to cut my self then went to blades and now most of the time i use kitchen knifes, mostly it was always on my arms , i never let people see to me i just woted to see myself bleed , it was a way for me to punish my self for things i realy dont know , mabe 1 day i will know just wot i am and way punishing my self for .. tell that day i take 1 day at a time , mostly i can go a couple of months now with out cutting 2 weeks ago saturday was my last time . and mabe the last time for ever who knows .. good luck all , my prays go out to you all xxxxx jay
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I haven't cut for eleven days now, which is sort of a record for me, and I did this by writing out my pain. I normally cut because people upset me or I get depressed, so instead of cutting I wrote really mean letters to the people I was angry at and then sometimes I'd write letters to myself expressing my disgust in my old behaviour. I find that when I set my mind to it, I can stop something. It may not be for good, but at least I know that I can do it.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
