Self-Injury Support Group
Whether you or someone you know or love struggles with self-injury, this is the community to discuss your experience, find support, meet others going through the same, and get advice on how to stop. Working together, we can help find alternative coping skills to reduce the urge to self-harm.
i've cut myself one last year and i stopped during the summer even thought i wanted to do it soo much. i continued this past november again after i came out with this sexual abuse that happened to me when i was younger (9-12)..im 16 now. My parents (divorced) were fighting blaming each other, then they started blaming me, saying things like "you obviously enjoyed it that's why you never told for so long"...etc...im just so tired of everything going on in this f--king life. i hate myself soo much. when i cut i jjust feel in control, i feel like i did it to the situation. i feel like no one understands me, my school counselor called me a drama queen...ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i actually cut today, but that was because im just mad at myself, i hate myself alot.
Your parents are probably stressed and can't understand why you would've kept it secret! Maybe try writing to them, your feelings, why you couldn't talk.......sometimes getting them to read is better than listening as it gives them time to think.
And don't hate yourself, you're not to blame!!
Try and find someone you can talk too........I've gone to priests(even though I'm not religious) when I couldn't find anyone else.
I'm here too, if you want to chat.
*Hugs*
please dont hate yourself, i went through hating myself and blaming myself for my sexual abuse but its not worth it.
it wasn't your fault, you COULDNT control it, no matter how much you say you could have stopped it, you could not!
and i personally would have bloody smacked that councellor for calling you a drama queen!
if you wanna talk about anything come talk to me, i went through 6 years of sexual abuse and telling my mum was the hardest thing i've ever done, i can relate :)