Self-Injury Support Group
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Okay, English is not my mother tongue so this will have many mistakes.
I'm 15 and I'm clean from like 5 mounts. It's only because my boyfriend...
I started self-harming because of him too but I'm thankful that he made me stop. But I have the urge to do it again, I have it really often but I swore that I won't and with us swearing is real. We have many problems and I have problems with my family too. My that is kinda a pedophile and he was in my bed, naked the day after my last birthday. My boyfriend often hits me, that's when we fight and he intimidates me that he is going to do it again but harder. I can't say anything to him, because he did too much for me to leave him and he is serious when he say that he is going to die without me.. Tonight we had a fight again and I was really close to breaking all my promises, I even had pills in my hand and I'm afraid that the next time is going to be the last time. I'm just hurting him, he doesn't deserve it.. I can't hold anymore, please tell me what to do, please...
I'm 15 and I'm clean from like 5 mounts. It's only because my boyfriend...
I started self-harming because of him too but I'm thankful that he made me stop. But I have the urge to do it again, I have it really often but I swore that I won't and with us swearing is real. We have many problems and I have problems with my family too. My that is kinda a pedophile and he was in my bed, naked the day after my last birthday. My boyfriend often hits me, that's when we fight and he intimidates me that he is going to do it again but harder. I can't say anything to him, because he did too much for me to leave him and he is serious when he say that he is going to die without me.. Tonight we had a fight again and I was really close to breaking all my promises, I even had pills in my hand and I'm afraid that the next time is going to be the last time. I'm just hurting him, he doesn't deserve it.. I can't hold anymore, please tell me what to do, please...
aimeemarie23
hey, all i can say is PLEASE don't do anything. I understand how you feel, i've been in that position many times with the pills in my hand ready to take them but then in the end I don't, and I don't know why. However, I do think you deserve A LOT better than someone who intimidates you and hits you because that's not acceptable in any way and cannot be excused. Everyone makes promises but sometimes we have to break them in order to do whats best for us. It sounds like you aren't the one thats hurting him, but rather he is the one who is hurting you. Stay strong, and don't be too hard on yourself if you relapse of feel the need to X
NekoChan
I don't think that I can live without him. I just can't believe it. I know it sounds stupid, but I love him, I love him more than anything. I can't do anything and I don't know what to do, I just want to be perfect for him..
aimeemarie23
i completely understand... i felt the same about my ex but it's been over a year since she broke up with me and by some miracle i'm still here. try to focus on yourself, whats important is doing whats best for YOU.
NekoChan
That would be very selfish and selfishness is one of my biggest flaws that I'm working on, it will be very hypocritical.
LoveAlice
Can you please try to get help about what your dad is doing to you? That is sexual abuse. And your boyfriend is physically abusing you. Which is not good either. But can you at least tell about your dad?
aimeemarie23
Doing whats right for you isn't selfish at all in my opinion, especially in a situation like this. I know its much easier said than done though, especially when you love someone because its your natural instinct to put them first, no matter whats happened between you X
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