You have brightened lives and been a good friend. You have overcome a lot and you haven't given up. I say those things matter. You are not a loser. You deal with issues that would overwhelm anyone. Give yourself a break my friend. YOU ARE NOT WORTHLESS!!!

You are not worthless. It makes me feel so good when I get a hug from you. You are a caring person that can put a smile on my face. You are dealing with so much and I see you reaching out to others and helping them. We love you.

No one is worthless when you value yourself.

I love u guys too, hugs

I feel worthless cause I'm 36 years old and never been in serious relationship or had any babies, and I'm absolutely nowhere with my life and being physically sick even makes ne feel worse about all my failures and I just feel totally stuck and I don't know what to do

I have not done what I had hoped to in life either. I blame myself for that usually. The physical pain and fears just makes you feel worse about yourself? How horrible. You are not hopeless or totally lost. I see hope when I see one of your posts. Thank you so much for opening up here. You are not alone.

Relationships are not the place to find value, but I know what you mean. It is society that tells us only married people are worthy. It's not true. There are things about being single that are really good. You have more freedom to do what you really want to do. In a marriage (or serious relationship) everything you do must take into consideration how it will affect the other person. It's less expensive and less complicated to be on your own. I know it can be lonely, too. You have to find ways to get healthy social interaction to help fill that emptiness. Plus, it is the social interaction that could open the door to meeting someone. It also helps to have a purpose - something that you know you are here to do. What would you say your purpose is? If you don't know, spend some thought time thinking and writing about that.

I know you're having a hard time with everything, but thinking negative thoughts about yourself isn't going to get you unstuck. You'll have to make changes. Little changes can add up to a big change. So start with something small. Try being kinder to yourself in your mind. Find something that makes you feel happy and do that. Go for a walk. Breathe some fresh air. Change your patterns of behavior, even if you just mix up the order of things you already do, then branch out to adding new activities.

You can do something. Just do anything that feels different. Then you'll get more comfortable with being different. Change is what you need to get unstuck. I'm rooting for you!!!

You are in no way worthless. Everyone has worth. I know it is an awful feeling to have as I feel I have not accomplished what i should have as well. I hope you can find a way to look at all the good in yourself and not what you think you failed to do.