no its not just you. my pasts haunting me too.

but dont be afrraid. you can only keep telling urself that the past is gone. n u need to accept urself. other than that i dont kno how else . its hard to accept urself.....maybe talking about it to someone u trust might help. argh so sorry. this doesnt sound very helpful. but if i hear/read something better. i'll let you know...

tc. and ur not alone =)

the Past is the past without it we cant have a future, youi will never beable to forget tyour past if you did you would end up makeing the same mistakes, or forgetting what you've learned, i know its hard to except and forgive your self for what you have done or have gone through, but it is so nessisary to let it go, let it be, you can never forget it but it doesnt mean you have to live IN it. If we didnt have a past we wouldnt be who we are today, it will always be a part of you, so instead of focusing on the negitives from your past problems focus on the possitive, say if you had cheated on a test negitive- i got in trouble i failed i let people down, positive- i learned why im not so psot to cheat i learnd that cheating doesnt only hurt me, im probly confusing you but i tried let me kno if it helps, and no its not jsut you this is a problem 99.9% of all people face i can almost garantee it :)

Beforeicouldthink.very Good point . Without the past we r not who we re today..

thank you all really i 'am trying step by step.
lorrie