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Ahhhh! :'(

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why does every guy i meat want a girl with big BOOBS?!?! WTF. i hate this shit!! every time i hear someone talk about it, someone ask me what size i am or see it on tv i feel so terrible. i feel like im not beautiful or pretty enough or good enough for anyone in the world because i feel like the only way i could be is if i had huge fucking boobs!!! i feel like no one would want to date me becasue somehow im inadaquate. i think about this several times a day and its KILLING me!! :P i think... why is it that so many other girls are blessed and im not? why is that? its not fair. why should I suffer???? i cant stand to look at myself in the mirror. i cant change this,... theres nothing i can do so im doomed to hate the way i look forever?!?!?! i feel terrible, i cant take this anymore.
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When you are in your young adult life people tend to be shallow and fixated on looks and boobs. They really don't have anything else to think about. It should pass on most people. Unfortunately some never learn and continue this behavior into their working years. Looking back, now being in my 40's. For the most part I met alot of great individuals. Some of the women I have met in the working place that were most beautiful and popular amongst men did no necessarily have large boobs. They had a great personality, great long hair, enhanced their natural features with make-up, they dressed really nice, kept excess weight off. Keep the focus on doing things that feel good to you. Cause later on its really all about, the bills and how much money you need to feel comfortable in life and how your going to get it. Beauty almost comes 2nd to those issues. Also you can use push up bras, if you want to enhance your look. When you are asked your size have a response ready. Such as none and change the subject or say it in a kidding way of "ooh my gosh I totally don't answer such shallow questions" turn it around on them and say "be real, please".... I use to love using that one. Remember always be happy about your natural gifts we are not manufactured barbies in the real world just simple people. Develop your individual qualities, work on them. Make yours shine with work on self. Such as art, style, study,sport, learn an instrument etc
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Hi! I don't have big boobs and I have a male friend who loves big boobs. We always laugh about my boobs. I buy bras from La Senza that are double lift and they make my boobs look huge and then we laugh! He thinks it's great that I have such a good sense of humour about it.

Here's a secret ... men like to look at big boobs but they like all boobs! A great guy won't not date you because your boobs are too small!

Go out and buy yourself some fun bras! Trust me .... it helps!
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It is not a big deal that you don't have big boobs. Neither do i, but my boyfriend always tells me it doesn't make a difference. Because you see, if a guy really likes or loves you, it won't matter. Most men are real pervs, but those who care too much about it, are not worth your time.
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