Rheumatoid Arthritis Support Group
Rheumatoid arthritis is a chronic, inflammatory, multisystem, autoimmune disorder. It is a disabling and painful condition which can lead to substantial loss of mobility due to pain and joint destruction. The disease is also systemic in that it often also affects many extra-articular tissues throughout the body including the skin, blood vessels, heart, lungs, and...
Despite being upset with another problem (and possible surgery) an explanation can be relieving and validating. At least it can take away some stress of the unknown, and now you can move on to some treatment. But a good meltdown also feels good!
I have been having significant problems with my wrist -- exacerbated by gardening this past weekend! And with occasional, transient numbness and tingling I have wondered if I have cubital syndrome. The problem can come from compression of the nerve anywhere from the wrist up to the shoulder.
Hopefully your OT (and maybe PT) can be helpful -- they tend to be creative in coming up with ways to help with splinting, positioning, and other exercises, to hopefully avoid surgery.
Good luck and keep us posted.