Rheumatoid Arthritis Support Group
Rheumatoid arthritis is a chronic, inflammatory, multisystem, autoimmune disorder. It is a disabling and painful condition which can lead to substantial loss of mobility due to pain and joint destruction. The disease is also systemic in that it often also affects many extra-articular tissues throughout the body including the skin, blood vessels, heart, lungs, and...
Talk to your doctor about getting on a biologic. 3 years with pain could mean you have damaged your joints, but it could also be that you haven't and a biologic will prevent damage.
Best of luck. I completely understand how you feel.
Whatever you might have, please find a rheumatologist. Get yourself some help and relief.
Hugs