Rheumatoid Arthritis Support Group
Rheumatoid arthritis is a chronic, inflammatory, multisystem, autoimmune disorder. It is a disabling and painful condition which can lead to substantial loss of mobility due to pain and joint destruction. The disease is also systemic in that it often also affects many extra-articular tissues throughout the body including the skin, blood vessels, heart, lungs, and...
It took me over 6 years to get diagnosed. And many of us are right in that range of 4-10yrs.
As for the methotrexate - it helps suppress the immune system and takes 6months or so to work. Your doctor keeping you on it to see if it works is pretty typical.
I am sure you are very frustrated, but be patient as whatever is ailing you manifests enough to diagnose.
Did you go on prednisone with any effectiveness? That's pretty tell-tale for autoimmune. If it works, you are probably headed in the right direction. If not, well, there's a long road to diagnosis.
Your doing exactly as you should. Listen to your body & try to stay a head. Keep in mind your husband does not live in your body. He's not the one suffering. Perhaps you don't have RA but better safe then sorry. It's a sneaky bugger. Sure sounds like something may be going on & you want to catch it before that 3 turns into a 7.
So many test negative all along , so many suffer before testing positive.
Looking back I know I had it & tested negative.
Bcatz gave excellent advice. Prednisone can be a test, not for everyone but seems the majority.
My dr looks at the hands also. Mean while my shoulders killing me.
Very frustrating.
Perhaps look at some posts here & show your doubting Thomas husband. He's not the only one like that yet has to be frustrating.
Focus on you & never mind what your husband thinks.
Bottom line follow your instincts & listen to your body.
Sammy
Keep in mind that no blood test will give you definite answers for these autoimmune diseases. Combined with symptoms, a physical exam, and imaging a doctor can make an educated guess, but as bcatz and Sammy point out, diagnosis can be a long process.