my partner and i have always had an incredible sex life, we have been dating nearly a year. now he wants to watch porn, and use toys, he likes to have things put up his arse. why is he so turned on by all this, he texts me all day long about sex, and things he wants other woman to do to me, i told him what he would want to do to thers, and when he told me i was disgusted, but it kind of turned me on also, what is going on. we normally ahve sex 3 times a day. so why is it he wanting more. i dont want to be watching porn all the time, we watched it for 2 hours the other night, mostly chick on chick, no when we have sex he referrs to it,, he wants to try new things and have a dildo up his arse. is this just part of a normal sex life,. or shoudl i be concerned??