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idontknow96
idontknow96

Okay so I have a a really close friend that I'm starting to have feelings for. But there's some issues. One being I'm usually a quiet guy and not very good in the dating world. Most of my relationships have been from online dating mostly because I'm not good at asking people out in person and its hard for me to tell if  they feel the same way about me unless they straight up tell me. So its easier to do that online. I suck at reading signals. We've been friends for a while now and have grown really close. I have developed feelings for her. I haven't felt this way in a long time about someone. The thing is I don't wanna risk telling her and her not feeling the same way and it becoming awkward and slowly stop talking to eachother. Even if I can't have her in my life romantically I would still like to be friends with her and I don't wanna risk the friendship by telling her and her not feeling the same way . when I grow to like a friend I tend to not tell them unless I'm almost positive they feel the same way 

bonusjack
bonusjack
There are a few books out there with titles like "1000 questions to ask before you tie the knot." You could take one out after a quiet dinner at home, and ask if she would like to try some of the questions. Make it into a game. Maybe she will be able to read between the lines.
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