Are you angry with your H/W? Is it because they slept with someone and you can't stand that, or is it because it turned your world upside down and you loved your life the way it was before you found out? or both? Or you never thought they could? Most people pre-marriage sleep with others and you get over it right? But there is a difference after vows are said. I understand from the stand point of never cheating on my H, what he did to me was so not right, but atleast he didn't sleep with her like she would like others to believe. I can say, I am really happy (in an odd way) that I found out. It made my eyes open to the scum my so called friend was, how she acts, her fakeness, lies,deception and the opportunity to get something rotten out of my life. So for that part at least I am thankful. Yes I was upset about the little bit that did happen, but I understand it completely. I am so thankful though that I don't live the OW's life. She can't stand it because my finding out changed her life, not the love for her H, but her life, they way it was before she found out about all of her marriages baggage. Well to her I say, eat s...and die for intruding on my life. Thanks for letting me see the real you, and oh how much more rich my life is for me and my H without you in it.
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