Rebuilding Marriage After Infidelity Community Group
A community for those who have been through the heartbreak of infidelity and decided to stay with their partner and try to re-build the relationship.
I keep coming back to this place - where I realize how much my daily gratitude helps me in all of this. I'm going to post just a few for today -I hope others will add theirs to inspire all of us.
Things I am grateful for right now:
1. Lovely breakfast with my son
2. Watching Nadal play tennis
3. It's friday - woo hoo
4. Proud of all my hard work at recovery
5. Just re-blonded my dark roots :o)
Things I am grateful for right now:
1. Lovely breakfast with my son
2. Watching Nadal play tennis
3. It's friday - woo hoo
4. Proud of all my hard work at recovery
5. Just re-blonded my dark roots :o)
My wonderful children
My friends and champions here at DS
The sun is shining
2. The great computer I am typing on
3. My sweet fluffy cat at the end of the bed.
4. The good night's sleep I got last night for the first time in days.
5. The great granola I had for breakfast.
6. The wonderful song on the stereo I am listening too.
Can you tell I am living in the now today.
2. Made it still standing thru dday anniversary
3. Louise Hays affirmation CD - helps keep me calm
2. That my workplace has people I consider family, who, even though they don't know what I'm going through, have been there to make me laugh, think and be confident.
3. The beautiful trail walk I took today with a best friend and my dog.
4. My great kids who are my anchor.
5. My husband, who hurt me terribly only 6 weeks ago, who made me laugh and feel positive today.
6. For joining this site, that has given me such terrific helpful advice!
2. Today is all but over
2. My wonderful friends
3. A lovely peaceful meditation
4. Made it thru 1st anniversary of Dday
5. Made it thru what would have been my 12th anniversary
6. Still standing - breathing - sometimes even smiling!!!
2. I am making good decisions for myself
3. I am blessed with 3 beautiful little valentines
4. My friends at DS are always here for me
5. Despite it all, the sun is still shining for me
2. I'm going to be fine, my kids are going to be fine
3. I can have compassion for myself even if H doesn't
4. When he does things that hurt me, I can still choose to feel better
5. I can't change his behavior, but I can choose how I get to live my life
2. That I am not an OW and never will be.
3. For all of my children.
4. For my husband and the continued love he shows me. And boy does he show me!!
5. That I am not the one living with all of the lies. My H's OW, man what lies she has told and can't go back on. You know, in so deep you can't get out kind, but how I wish she would fess up. But she is the one that has to live in her mess she made. HELL!!
6. God and the strength he gives me.
7. My job, I am so secure.
8. All of my family and friends. They have my back.