Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
unfortunately people go through rape everyday i myself was at one point a victim but now im a survivor. to this day people cant believe my story or don't understand my triggers and flashbacks or even feelings? i used to question why they didn't believe or in some cases why wouldn't they allow themselves to believe me ? but the more and more i thought about it i have realized people don't want to believe u for a few reasons i could start off with how they know the person and don't want to believe that they would be capable to do such or thing, or maybe its because they just cant believe that such a thing could have happened let alone to a young girl like me. but what they don't realize is that someday they will have to accept it just like i had to or like the other victims and survivors had to. yes people don't want to believe it because they don't want to be involved in knowing about anything in that category but what about us victims and survivors we wish that we would have never gone through that but we cant just turn our heads and ignore it acting as if it never happened no matter how hard we try it just doesn't work. but how is it so easy for u guys to? is it because ur not a victim and don't know how it feels like to be a victim? well i could be a heartless bitch and say i wish that more people could go through it so we had more people to understand how it is to be a victim or survivor but i wont because i couldn't EVER wish that on anyone no matter how much i hate someone. but i do wish that somehow more people would understand us and believe us so that maybe we didn't feel so alone. it makes it more difficult to talk about being a victim or even a survivor when u feel like ur alone because no one believes u. when i told my story i was scared to death that no one would believe me then on top of that i my life was threatened. i guess what im trying to say is rape exists no one wants to believe it or talk about it and i don't blame u guys but it does happen, and not many victims or even survivors have that support group that they need.
KAdunn
Which is sadly why most people don't come forward. Even just to tell what happened is like being re victimized all over again. And then you could be like me and have chunks of memory missing. Most people who haven't experienced that usually don't want to deal with it or think about it.
rosered1
that is exactly what i was talking about.
littlelucyx3
Yeah most people just blow the victims off or blame them. People are horrible. I hate most people. It is hard to find a decent human being in this world.
TaliaFerrera12
My concern is not only do they not believe you but the blame you for your mistrust of others. I can't maintain relationships because I have children and I fear I may allow the wrong person into their lives. It sucks.
rosered1
yes i hate most people to i have a small circle of people i talk to and i would like to say i can fully trust them but i cant i trust them as much as i can and thats more then anybody. theres times tht my mind blocks things out but then at other times it all comes flying back at me. so many people get upset with me because i cant trust them and let them close to me even the people i can somewhat trust i find myself pushing them away at times and i dont mean to. relationships will get tough especially if u have kids because there is always going to be that worry about did i let the wrong person into my life and my kids life. it effects ALOT of our lifes and some people dont understand that either.
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