Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
After my rape I haven't been able to orgasm... Does anyone else that that problem? The only time I can "get off" is if he says AWFUL things to me. I was never like that before but it's almost as if what happens changes how I have sex.
Even though I did not have this problem, I have heard others discuss similar things. What I have experienced is that even though I have always enjoyed a little role play, since my rape I have enjoyed role playing that I was being raped. That was never something I did before my attack. I never would participate in bondage, violence, or sexual abuse role play, until after my attack, and now there are times that I just crave being tied up, spanked, talked dirty to, talked to like a sex slave, and "forced" to have sex, both oral and anal.
So I would say that what you are experiencing is normal, I feel that you are just going through the stages of grief. It may always be this way for you from now on, then again as time passes, and the pain lessons, you may go back to "normal". I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.