If I was in your situation I would wanna know......i was just in this.situation on the 19th my guy I've been dating a few months was having a party I drank too much told him I was going to bed awoke w him trying to have sex w me I kept saying no he kept going....he just kept shushing me as I cried told me to be quiet so I don't wake his roommate....i don't know what to do I'm a wreck...i feel like its my fault like I led him on or something......i feel like he took advantage of me but I don't know if I can call my situation rape

i would ask him.....but you need to know what you're going to do with that information...if i were you i would ask who it was and then go to the police and report him......but i think before you get his name weigh your options an know what you're gonnad o with it...good luck!!! we're here for you!!!!! :)

Faultedstars, It's never your fault when you get raped.. and yes, it IS rape what happened to you..

Valgal81, I don't really have anything to do with the information. Just not talk to that person anymore I guess, It was over a year ago, so the cops can't prove anything.... It's just....so I don't have to question it anymore... it's like... he has a mask on, and part of me wants to take it off and expose him to the world as the real piece of sh*t he is, and the other part of me wants to run and not look back ever again.. it's really confusing, i hope that made sense lol

I deff think you should talk to him and find out who it was, but also make SURE thats who it was, so you dont hate an innocent person while the real asshole goes unknown.

They know for SURE it's him... He confessed to it.... I guess I'll ask him. and just do what feels right from there