Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
I don't know what happened to me. I don't really remember what happened. I don't really have much information on it because when it happened I was probably about 7.
I remember being in a room. There was a woman in there with me. I don't really remember what happened before that or after, but what I do remember is her asking me to take my pants off. As I said earlier I don't remember much about what happened, just that I said no and that I vaguely remember her trying to comfort me and tell me that it was a misunderstanding, and then nothing.
It drives me crazy not knowing what happened. Was I molested? Was I raped? I don't know, Could she have given me an std or something and I have been living with it for 11 years. Not knowing kills me.
The best part about this whole is the "fun" laws in place describing rape, such as ' The penetration, no matter now slight of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex of another person, without the consent of the victim. ' so unless she put something in me, it isn't rape even if she forced me to b in her. it isn't rape. And even if she did put something in me it doesn't matter because only that part would b rape not the other things.
Being a guy sucks. Not just because of the legal system but also because of culture. I cant go out and get help for any of this because to do so would mean advertising that I wasn't strong enough to stop it. besides who would believe me. Men can't be raped, and women aren't capable of doing so. That's what everyone believes isn't it?
I remember being in a room. There was a woman in there with me. I don't really remember what happened before that or after, but what I do remember is her asking me to take my pants off. As I said earlier I don't remember much about what happened, just that I said no and that I vaguely remember her trying to comfort me and tell me that it was a misunderstanding, and then nothing.
It drives me crazy not knowing what happened. Was I molested? Was I raped? I don't know, Could she have given me an std or something and I have been living with it for 11 years. Not knowing kills me.
The best part about this whole is the "fun" laws in place describing rape, such as ' The penetration, no matter now slight of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex of another person, without the consent of the victim. ' so unless she put something in me, it isn't rape even if she forced me to b in her. it isn't rape. And even if she did put something in me it doesn't matter because only that part would b rape not the other things.
Being a guy sucks. Not just because of the legal system but also because of culture. I cant go out and get help for any of this because to do so would mean advertising that I wasn't strong enough to stop it. besides who would believe me. Men can't be raped, and women aren't capable of doing so. That's what everyone believes isn't it?
valgal18
i'm so sorry that that happened to you....i can't tell you if you were, but it sounds like you were molested....men/boys/males CAN and DO get raped....you were a child, there's no way that you could have stopped it.....if you're worried about stds get yourself tested....just say you're worried about it and leave it at that.....women are capable of raping males, just like women are capable of murder and physical abuse.....you can go out and get help.....therapy helps and i reccommend that you try to see ka therapist.....know that we're all here for you....if you wanna talk, i'm here
SexyBeast
Thanks. And yeah I do realize women are capable of doing horrible things just as men are, the problem is the rest of society and even the law doesn't realize that as well.
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