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Me and some friends were drinking last night and I got pretty drunk and felt like I was gonna pass out and so I laid down on a couch. A little later I woke up and one of the girls, who I know very well, had my penis out and was sucking on it. I pushed her off me and was like WTF. She was like its no big deal just sit back and relax. I told her she was F'in crazy and got out of there. I feel so disgusted by the whole experience and don't know what to do. I am seriously thinking about calling the police and reporting it. What do you think?
valgal18
i'm so sorry that that happened to you.....you can report it.....she violated you.....you passed out and weren't able to consent.....i don't think there's a problem with reporting it....i hope the police help if you decide to report it.....i hope this helped.....if you wanna talk, please feel free to message me
ArisingFromTheAshes
I say report it. It might be scary, but she invaded your boundaries and violated your space without your permission.
Heptet
It's entirely your choice but definitely something you could report. She had no right to do that to you whatsoever. I'm sorry this happened to you
Precious97
I would encourage you to report it
imaperson
Thank you for your comments. Frankly, I was afraid if I reported it, I would not be taken seriously because she is a girl and I am a guy. But I personally do not think that should matter and the contact was most definitely not welcome. Having you all agree with my view of the situation is extremely helpful and means a lot. Thank you
feelingalone21
No matter what the situation rape/ sexual assault is absolutely wrong! There has been research that shows when victims have the courage to speak up about their abusers it helps them heal faster in the long run. The choice is always yours no matter what anyone tell you! But NEVER feel that you have to silence yourself & NEVER allow someone to intimidate you into keeping quiet because in the end only the abuser will win. Be brave, take your stand.
janell35
As a woman who (unfortunately as many others have as well). I have been hurt by the opposite sex when I said no. You deserve to have you wishes understood, and not be touched in any way...especially if you could not agree or consent. It does not matter your gender. Hurt is hurt. And I would report it however you can, so at least it is on record. Best of luck and I am very sorry that happened to you.
imaperson
I really don't understand what would make another person think that it's ok to touch another person uninvited. I also don't understand how someone can convince themselves that the other person should like and appreciate it.
30pieces
As a male survivor, you were straight-up assaulted. I'd contact the police. I never did--my excuse is it happened when I was 17 or so. I was drugged.
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