Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
Since i was attacked I seem to have lost all my decision making abilities and not only is this a generally frustration as my life fails to move forward but it is also something that it depressing me at the moment as I am letting opportunities pass me by. I may hav an important decision to make tomorrow and I have no idea what to do. Help!
You have given such sound advice to me and to others you still have all the strength inside of you. The attack hasn't taken it away but maybe hidden it a little due to a loss of self confidence and self belief. Best advice I could give to you is write all the options you have, the pros and cons of each option and trust your instinct. Also, think of what you might advise one of us - you have a wealth of knowledge but it is sometimes easier to give it to others than to accept it yourself. Every day has a different opportunity, so there are no missed ones just ones waiting to be taken! Take care, C
Sometimes I just have to remind myself that even a bad decision is still better than making no decision at all!