Rape Support Group
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idk if this is rape or not.
my brother wanted to have sex but i didn't want to. i keept telling him no over and over untill i finally gave in and just said fine. when he got it in it hurt really bad and i told him to stop that it hurt and at first he didn't but then he did. he wanted to try again and i said no but he begged again and this time i said nothing but just layed back down and he tryed again till i told him to stop and he did.
i don't know if that would be considered as rape or not. i've been told it was but im not sure bc it didn't last very long. ugh i just don't know. maybe i don't even want to know.
my brother wanted to have sex but i didn't want to. i keept telling him no over and over untill i finally gave in and just said fine. when he got it in it hurt really bad and i told him to stop that it hurt and at first he didn't but then he did. he wanted to try again and i said no but he begged again and this time i said nothing but just layed back down and he tryed again till i told him to stop and he did.
i don't know if that would be considered as rape or not. i've been told it was but im not sure bc it didn't last very long. ugh i just don't know. maybe i don't even want to know.
kayrl
and this all happend a long time ago. i was 9 or 10
deleted_user
I'm so sorry this happened to you and yes, that is rape hun.
deleted_user
yes sweetheart, it is rape. Is this th talked about it? You will find that talking through what happened, at your own pace and in your own time, will help you come to terms with what happened. Good luck, and please remember that no mater what, you did nothing to deserve this and its NOT YOUR FAULT.
kayrl
ya, first time talking about this...only one person know's about this and i met her on here. i don't really know what to think about it. kind of perfer not to but i know i have to other wise it will just keep sneaking up on me and making my life hell.
deleted_user
If you said no and still deep inside didn't want to it is the four letter R word. I am sorry that you had to go through this. If you need to talk I am here for you. lots of hugs!
kayrl
if i talk about it to my counselor will she report it? it's old evidence but when she thought i was sharing new information about one of my brothers she re opend the case said since it's new information she had to or something. and this will be new information. and since im 17 im still considered a kid. but once i turn 18 then can she? i turn 18 in less than a month. can she re open the case like last time or since im 18 she cant cuz im an adult and don't have to.
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