Rape Support Group
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excuse me again but im getting problems can i ask you ?
what is that atttack below. its carried out over sex an they get thrills
doing it. im sorry to ask and please forgive more answers or questions
but what is that to you ?
they said i was wrong if i fought back they then complained. i mean i had injuries before over sex. in simple self defence after threats i had recieved so had no reason to believe they wouldnt try to kill me. the cops sort of implied that at times they try to bash you senseless so you dont fight. they did with battered wives i knew they bashed her senseless so they went its all youre fault, this is what you can expect,
this is what youre here for, thats all you get, we can do what we want etc in general. its an abuse routine as far as ive seen, to do that.
its done to make the victim feel that way as an easy target or further abuse. i did get injuries but just responded in self defence
on one occasion. the cops said on tv you can get over a rape not being
killed its like that.as you start fighting them off they get violent.
so as far as ive seen or am aware thats why they threaten with knives or something, to scare you into not fighting back. and just to let them.
on approach they sort of go im GOING to do this an youre going to do this, in some way related to sex demands.
theres no option given. what i saw was as they get contravened as you dont comply their head sort of locks up they get aggressive
and sometimes freak out like if they get found its known they do it to shut you up. like if they try and if it dosent come off they get scared of what happened and they try possibly to kill to silence the intended victim.
it looked like that, its like they get cocksure an it fails and they freak out. like they cant handle it didnt or wasnt going to happen and it wasnt going to be easy. so they threaten to avoid a physical response
back to get what they want or to shut you up after. i only asked coz thats what i saw thats what happened that started. i dont know if it helps but thats what i experienced or saw. that is my estmation
of what they do to abuse or assault etc. im not a rape crisis team
or similar but thats what i saw. does that help at all. its serious
so dont think its criticism its was an observation. i get my probems too
with this because i saw them do and try that. an others criticize me.
what is that atttack below. its carried out over sex an they get thrills
doing it. im sorry to ask and please forgive more answers or questions
but what is that to you ?
they said i was wrong if i fought back they then complained. i mean i had injuries before over sex. in simple self defence after threats i had recieved so had no reason to believe they wouldnt try to kill me. the cops sort of implied that at times they try to bash you senseless so you dont fight. they did with battered wives i knew they bashed her senseless so they went its all youre fault, this is what you can expect,
this is what youre here for, thats all you get, we can do what we want etc in general. its an abuse routine as far as ive seen, to do that.
its done to make the victim feel that way as an easy target or further abuse. i did get injuries but just responded in self defence
on one occasion. the cops said on tv you can get over a rape not being
killed its like that.as you start fighting them off they get violent.
so as far as ive seen or am aware thats why they threaten with knives or something, to scare you into not fighting back. and just to let them.
on approach they sort of go im GOING to do this an youre going to do this, in some way related to sex demands.
theres no option given. what i saw was as they get contravened as you dont comply their head sort of locks up they get aggressive
and sometimes freak out like if they get found its known they do it to shut you up. like if they try and if it dosent come off they get scared of what happened and they try possibly to kill to silence the intended victim.
it looked like that, its like they get cocksure an it fails and they freak out. like they cant handle it didnt or wasnt going to happen and it wasnt going to be easy. so they threaten to avoid a physical response
back to get what they want or to shut you up after. i only asked coz thats what i saw thats what happened that started. i dont know if it helps but thats what i experienced or saw. that is my estmation
of what they do to abuse or assault etc. im not a rape crisis team
or similar but thats what i saw. does that help at all. its serious
so dont think its criticism its was an observation. i get my probems too
with this because i saw them do and try that. an others criticize me.
of sex abuse, as you say the power and control in the attack was evident, it was like domination, done to exercise power like if
the sex was a turn on, but it was done to force sexual submission.
that did include battery for power like if somebody is sex abused
then they feel so bad they dont fight, physical abuse is used too. and you get it over a period at times not just on one occasion, getting progressively worse i mean i called that rape in basic terms,
as i was approached i just fought back. is that clearer sorry if i wasnt
before.