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it seems like all my posts are about dreams, but i just can't figure out why i have them or what they mean!!!! so last night i had a dream where i was at an old friend's house and i was with my parents and i had a boyfriend.....i have no idea who this guy was but he was really nice.....well my dad's side of the family showed up and someone said something really mean to me and my boyfriend hugged me and i was crying.....then my dad started yelling at his family and then my uncle came up and hugged me and my dad shoved his brother against the wall and said,"don't you ever touch her again!!!!!!!" i hugged my boyfriend tighter and gave my uncle a strange look and suddenly i remembered.......and then my dad turned to me and said,"he won't ever hurt you again..." and my boyfriend hugged me tighter and all these memories came flooding in and i was screaming and crying and my boyfriend just stood there hugging me.....i had all these memories of my uncle sexually abusing me and then i woke up screaming in my pillow.....by the way, i had a dream a few months ago with m uncle raping me on a train, this is NOT the same uncle.....anyway i woke up and stared at the celing........i NEVER remember that happening!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i don't think my uncle EVER raped me!!!!!!!!! do you think maybe this dream has something to do with my past or am i just dreaming things because it;s getting closer to my anniervary????? if anybody has ANY ideas, i'd really appreciate it....i'm stumped....
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Dreams are hard to tell, but around my anniversary I also had dreams that weren't really related to the rape or my life but were at the same time. Dreams are usually not literally and are more of your brain piecing things together; and usually more feeling than factual. I wouldn't jump to conclusions but it's not really something you can say for sure. I had a dream where I was young and someone gave me alcohol and an older cousin was inappropriate with me but it started first with my younger sister being the one who was raped. None of these people in my dream were people I knew. The thing I related to most in the dreams were the feelings; my younger sister needing support from me alone (often I support myself of my sibling more than my parents do), ect. Look toward what you were feeling in that dream more than the actual details because I feel like the feelings the dream invoke through whatever visual means relate a lot to how you are feeling inside. At least with myself I know that is true.
Faultedstars
I've had dreams where past rapes happened but they were comitted by people that I know.and trust....such as co workers friends.....dreams are, hard to understand....maybe try analyzing your dreams or images with a dream book
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