Leeann, sorry you are experiencing this. I have been there and had that done a couple times. Some people are just that way. I really feel for the kids in this situation more than anything. It makes it hard when kids are involved because some people don't learn unless it is the hard way. Put your foot down. Offer help for the baby only, and see what happens. Don't let them get you down, you will be a fine mother. Ignore their ignorance.

This is my sister.. well correction. My foster sister. She came into my dare home when we were 16. Her and I have been close since then. But she has a cycle and i should have seen his comming! I just hoped and believed than with her being a mother now she has grown up some. Well, appearently that didn't happen. She was going to b homeless without transportation or a job so I told her to stay with me. I have a tiny apt and I gave up a lot to help accomidate her and my niece. I spent more money on her and the baby then the rest of my family for xmas bc I wanted her to b happy.
Things have been edgy for a few weeks since she got her job. But I usually bored my tongue bc I don't like to stir things that don't need to b stirred. I got aggrevated one day, partially due to lack of sleep and fatigue and me and her got into an arguekent over what I don't remember. But what I do remmber is that she said to me she didn't me watching her daughter and taking my frustration out on her!!! Really!! I couldn't believe my ears. I'm supposed to not only b her aunt but her god mother. Android she is a baby has she lost her mind?????

Yesterday I got a call about my uncle. I was laying on couch with my bf who is going to b the father of my child and joss was sleeping in her play pin. The call was saying my uncle drove off late at night to go to a dr apointment..... he was hillucinating and not coherent at all. I ruahed to try n find him. As most of u know he is deathly ill... I was getting the car seat ready for my niece and joe told me to let her sleep he would watch her to me to find my uncle. So I did and I left. Joe is apart of my family as much as she is. And more so was the importance of finding my uncle before he crashed and killed himself. But because I left joss with joe I'm a bad person. Its such a long story. I kicker her out bc of her words and actions and she is still screwing me over while she's gone.

Leaann, I'm so sorry. It's hard when somebody we care about and take care of is sh&%%y back at us. You've got to know she's disfunctional, right? And that this isn't about you, it's about her, right? Frustrating because of your neice, who really does need your help.

I kind of understand why your sister would be upset at your neice being left with a man your sister doesn't know well. But given this was an emergency, it seems more logical that she'd sit down with you and have a grown-up discussion about it and how she needs things to be in the future. But she's not logical.

If I were your aunt/sister/mother this is what I'd say: I know it's hard to emotionally set yourself apart from the situation, but there's only so much you can do. She is who she is and you need to take care of your own emotional needs without her wiping you out. You know what they say on the cruise ships - put on your own life vest before helping others with theirs.

Its been a few days. It still bothers me bc of the emotional attachment but not as bad. She told me I was a selfis bitch and if I weren't prego she beat ky ass and I'm gonna b a worthless mother. I can't get over that at all. I told her I understood her pov bc I didn't call her and tell her howevershe isn't understanding that the situation at that moment in time was.. well no words can describe it. She even insinuated that joe would sexually do something to josslyn and that she was getting checked at the hospital! That will thing his business his job at the casino. His name and credibility! All bc she is pissed at me!

Last night I took a shower at my house (been staying with joe) and she had taken all the shampoo conditioner body wash and two boxes oftampons . All that I paid for out of my own money. Now being preggers I don't need tampons but its the silly principle. She has lived there for free up till here about a week or so ago. I have supported her and joss and she thinks she's.entitled to things that aren't hers??? She's looney.