My prostate was removed surgically 12 years ago. After the first year of recovering and experimenting, my wife and I enjoy vaginal penitration sex and oral sex about twice a week. Yes, my penis is solid most of the times and yes I depend on Viagra, Cialis or Lipitol most of the times. The only thing I can't do is ejaculate semen. We researched the numerous prostate methods, including seed implants of all kinds. They all seemed to have long range problems in incontinence and sexual ability. We settled on nerve sparing surgery. It worked. There are times when I don't even need the pill. We used the pump off and on for the first year as my heart doctor forbade my use of the pills. I started the pills during the second year after surgery. My wife, of course, was extremely supportive and understanding throughout. She and I are most gratelful and appreciative for the sex we enjoy today. During a recent 90 day period I kept score. We had vaginal sex 23 times and oral sex 17 times in addition to that. I don't take the pill for oral sex as she can take me better in her mouth when I am not fully erect. I have 100 mg Viagra now which I split and have, for the past year been getting generic Viagra from India which works just fine. I am 73 and my wife is 66. We do use a vibrator in foreplay. Hope this provides some hope for some of you.
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