Pregnancy Support Group
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The difference between the two is the feeling. RL pain is PAIN...like someone kind of stabbed you, or pinched you. Contractions are like menstrual cramps. I found that when I got contractions, they made me feel kind of sick...though I should mention that the ONLY time I got contractions that I knew of was the day I went into labour with them...so I'm certainly not an expert! LOL!
Honestly I could have had contractions and not noticed because couldn't notice that my belly got hard--because my belly was always hard as a rock from squeezing two babies in that space. And I did just read in "What To Expect When You're Expecting" something about how it's normal to start having contractions at like 20 weeks, as long as they are irregular and you only have a few every hour. It's "practice" for the big day. (And with twins, that day is probably going to be sooner than most.)
: ) Congratulations on your pregnancy! Twins are just amazing. : )