I'm having my first child with a man that already has 7 children (I know very stupid) he and I had been seeing each other for years and I never got pregnant in my whole life, I was thinking that I couldn't get pregnant my doctor also told me I had pcos which could lead to fertility issues. Well needless to say it happened I'm 28 yes old and 22 weeks pregnant, when I first told him he said he was happy but actions eventually were shown,he barely comes around anymore and texts and calls and makes all these promises he doesn't keep, says he wants to be with me but just keeps stringing me along because if u wanted to be with me you just would be, plain and simple u wouldn't have to keep putting me off. I try to involve him by telling him about appointments that he never comes to and always has an excuse for. If its like this now just imagine when the baby comes, I feel that he won't be in his life, and just be inconsistent like he's been, its makes me sad for my son because it feels like I'm setting him up to lack a positive male figure in his life. And ironically he just texted me while im typing this saying that he loves me, I feel that he does that just to keep me there, whiles he's doing whatever. Its unfair, I just imagined it to be so different, taking pregnancy pics, going to birthing classes, taking a nice vacay before baby comes. Just having someone there for me at night, I just thought it was going to be with him he totally let me down, I told him when I got pregnant that I didn't want to do this alone he promised me I wouldn't be....now look at me. I feel like he feels like its not really important, because he has so many kids already. Its difficult to feel all this joy and not have the person you created it with not have the same feeling. Oh and btw we were together, then while we were broken up i found out i was pregnant..i didnt want to be just another statistic, I just need some encouragement.