Pregnancy Support Group
Welcome to the waiting room for anticipating moms and dads. Whether you're expecting your first or a new little brother or sister, meet other parents in this community who are also looking forward to a new addition to the family.
i've had positive terminal illness tests and have terminated my pregnancies. did you have that afp test for spina bifida as well?
another woman i know has a beautiful baby girl. i cant help but smile when i see her. during her third tri, the u/s showed cysts on her brain and she was told she would miscarry. obviously not, shes a beautiful, smiling little girl. she does have some skin discolorations that will fade and a heart condition that is easily treated with medication. she is a strong girl and was holding her weight on her feet at two months. doctors are wonderful people, dont get me wrong, but they can't know everything.
just pray.
on a side note- we chose to pass on the testing for any diseases. we went through a year of fertilty treatments before conceving. we were going to take what God gave us.
but spina bifida is more managable i'm sure. and i don't want to knock you and i didn't imply that you shoudl terminate your baby at all! i wouldn't judge you either way... i wish people were the same with me but unfortunately they are not. i wish you all the best of luck with your further testing and will keep you in my thoughts!!!
On a side note...we chose not to have any of the testing either...but I will say we make plans and God laughs.
Also, keep in mind these tests have a lot of false positives, everything may be just fine. Big hugs to you & I will keep you all in my prayers!