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geegee94 02/01/2018

Hi I am going through a similar situation except this is my first child. For the past 11 years I have been on and off with my ex. We never used anything because we loved each other and condoms I was allergic to. All those years I never got pregnant. I was concerned so I went to fertility doctor. They found out I had polyps I got those removed and still nothing. I had tried with another ex too but never got pregnant. In December I had to have a mass removed that was on my ovary. I warned him since I had the surgery that I have a high chance of getting pregnant and he seemed ok with it because he decided to have sex unprotected. In his mind I still couldn’t get pregnant. Well 2 weeks ago I noticed my period wasn’t coming and I’m regular every month. I took 2 tests and both came out positive. I told him and did not get the reaction I thought I would get, it was a bad one. He wants the baby gone, he said it’s.

Not the right time. We aren’t teenagers we are both in mid 30s. We both have jobs. I have very hurt and confused because I warned him and he knew what can happen. This is my first child and suppose to be joyful time and it’s been nothing but emotional hell. Someone who has been in your life so long and says they love u makes you feel like crap and doesn’t want your blessing, I am very against abortion but not sure what he will make my life like if I don’t. I Don’t wish this on anyone

LastAcorn99 02/01/2018

Congratulations on your pregnancy, friend! I strongly encourage you to give your baby a chance to live. I believe that no one has the right to coerce you to do away with the life growing within you. Praying for you. Stay strong, okay? ((Hugs))

KeepingThisPrivate 03/15/2018

I'm in a similar yet somewhat different situation. I know how alone and awful you must feel. It really sucks. Its supposed to be a joyous time and instead its just stress and sadness. I'm trying to picture my healthy adorable little baby 7 months from now and all the joy he or she will bring me. All the cute little firsts and everything. I can do this with or without him and so can you.

WarriorPrincess 03/19/2018

I’m going through the same situation. I was with my bf for two yrs until he lost his job bc if drug use and bc he let his family constantly disrespect me. So I left him , moved out and found out I was pregnant two wks later. He immediately went to my family’s house told everyone I was pregnant before I even had a chance to and demand they talk sense into to abort. It’s been nothing but heartache ever since. Every time we talk it’s about how it’s not too late to take the pill. How I’m trapping and tricking him when I have texts . Videos eyewitness accounts and letters of him begging and hoping I’d get pregnant soon from last September’. They I turned into a lazy nagging bitch (who worked 12+ he’s daily ). He continues in threaten me and say he’s going to sleep with 18 yo to hurt me. He’s hurtful on purpose. I just feel so sad and alone I fight back tears all day at work.

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