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Momof2lov
Momof2lov

I'm currently 17 weeks pregnant and today is just not my day... I'm so depressed and alone . Lately my mind has been full of negative thoughts.. I try to stay balances because I still have a 2 year old to take care of while carrying this child. I just can't believe I allowed myself to get in this situation I was doing so well.. But was continuing to deal with my babyfather like a dumb ass. He got out of prison in January I had hopehope that he had actually changed.. As soon as he was released we had sex and I ended up pregnant. He feel like I was already pregnant but I wasn't dealing with anyone else while he was gone .Plus  people are in his ear with all kind of lines telling him it's not his baby and it's honestly driving me crazy cause I thought me and him was better than that but obviously I was wrong he never cared about me... Talking about me to other females got me in so much drama I should be enjoying my pregnancy but it feels like pure hell. I have no one to vent to ,all of my family feel like I'm stupid for even getting pregnant by him a 2nd time anyway .. And I have no friends I'm just so alone at this point 

natlok2018
natlok2018
No offense but it just sounds like he is surrounded by unnecessary drama thy you don’t need. If I were you I’d just take a step back until after the baby is born when you can get a dna test. I know it sucks but it sounds like that’s all that will get trough to him. Also, don’t sell yourself short! Don’t cater to the drama! I’m in a somewhat similar situation and I find happiness in my toddler and doing activities with him.
Momof2lov
Momof2lov
Yeah he's most definitely surrounded by drama. Always have been and I am so over it.. I'm just tired of walking around like it's not bothering me. And I really feel like he know it's his damn baby he just wanna be ignorant. He gone get his dna tho because it's automatic with child support. I don't even want my children involved with him at this point
natlok2018
natlok2018
It just shows his maturity level but unfortunately you will have to deal with him for 18 years. Just take the high road and breath. You can’t force him to be a father but you shouldn’t keep him from them just because when your kids grow up they will resent you not him. I know being a mother is hard just take the high road breath and you never know maybe tomorrow you will meet a prince that will actually deserve your time and attention.