Pregnancy Support Group
Welcome to the waiting room for anticipating moms and dads. Whether you're expecting your first or a new little brother or sister, meet other parents in this community who are also looking forward to a new addition to the family.
I am needing some advice.... I have 2 children, 3 1/2 and the other is 5 months, and I might be pregnant. me and my fiance had an accident, we were talking and he said if I am than I should have an abortion, I'm not against nor for abortions, I feel it is all depending on the situation. Finacially I dont think we could care for another baby right now nor do I think I could handle being pregnant and caring for such yound children plus I am not fully recovered from giving birth but I also dont know if I could go through with it and be ok with myself :/ when I found out I was pregnant with my second I didn't want to keep her and wanted an abortion, my fiance saod he would never forgive me if I did and I'm happy I didnt have one because my baby girl is such a blesssing to me but I also dont want to take away from y children by adding another baby so soon, HELP PLEASE
Second, have you thought about adoption. We have just welcomed our second child via adoption. We are so very grateful to have him in our lives and we know there are many other couples hoping for the same outcome.
It is definitely not an easy option. People will always have their opinions they want to share with you. Then you have the heartbreak of saying goodbye.
However you can discuss with the adoptive parents what level of contact you'd like. Our birth mom likes photos and updates but no contact. So that is how we do it. Might not be what your partner wants I understand - but thought I'd put that idea out there.