Pregnancy - Teens Support Group

This community is dedicated to the experience of being pregnant as a teenager. Pregnant teenagers face many of the same obstetrics issues as women in their 20s and 30s. However, there are additional medical concerns for younger mothers, particularly those under 15 and those living in developing countries. For mothers between 15 and 19, age in itself is not a risk factor,...

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scenequeen 07/01/2008

well, im 16 and im about 6 weeks prego...me and the baby daddy broke up....about 6 days ago and now he wants to get back together....is it a good idea? and will it work....he still wants me to give the baby up in feb, which is when it is due...but if i lose him, and i lose the baby, what will i have left? so, my question is....should i accept him back, or should i just move on...a lil about him

he is 17 and almost 18. he got scared and bailed...now, he misses me and everytime we talk, he cries cos he misses me so much he says....and i believe him...hes a mammas boy, and lately, him and his mom dont talk and he is fighting with her cos she thinks im a lil slut, for getting prego...and danny thinks that he and i need to be together...he said that when he and i broke up, he was considering coming over to my house and begging me to take him back...daniel is not a bad guy just confused...but hes hurt me so much i wonder if i can still trust him...

HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

deleted_user 07/01/2008

you need to follow your heart. If you have seriously sat down and thought what you want espicilly about the baby you need to sit down with him and tell him before you jump back into this relationship with both feet. If you want to keep this baby.....you must tell him stright up. I know you have probably thought of this, but with you only being six weeks gone, you can still opt for an abortion...again you really need to sit and think. If this guy wont stand by you if you have this baby...who will? will your parents help and support you? What about school? How will you afford to keep this baby, provide for it financially? How will you cope with lack of sleep, not being able to go out with friends, being cut off from friends for being different....teenage pregnancy and parenting is very lonely time. Reading your profile it says you are in foster care....i dont know what it is like where you live, but here if you are in foster care when become pregnant, social services are automatically involved with your pregnancy. How will you pay medical bills if you are in states ect? do you have insurance? How will you get to and from appointments? where will you live after the baby has been born? who will you have to support you after the birth? birthing partner? the list is endless....but you really do need to consider ALL of these and many more. here if can be of any help.

deleted_user 07/01/2008

So your giving your baby up for adoption?
If you think you can trust him and if you think he will be supportive then do it. Pregnancy is a very hard time for any girl especially if your so young. You need someone who is going to be supportive and not get scared and bail. I would talk with him and make sure that he is going to be there for you duing this hard time.
If you still dont know, Id make a pros and cons list, might help a bit, and..its a lil fun :P lol..
Goood luck! I hope everything works out.

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