Pregnancy - Teens Support Group

This community is dedicated to the experience of being pregnant as a teenager. Pregnant teenagers face many of the same obstetrics issues as women in their 20s and 30s. However, there are additional medical concerns for younger mothers, particularly those under 15 and those living in developing countries. For mothers between 15 and 19, age in itself is not a risk factor,...

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destruxia 12/14/2012

Well, my girlfriend and I have had sex quite a few times and well.... here's the thing, she is 14 going on 15 and I'm 17.... Last night she told me how her breasts were hurting for the past couple days and so far she hasn't gotten her period yet and well.... I'm worried cuz I'm not ready for a kid this early and I wish I never had sex in the first place.... We love each other the most we can but she said if she is pregnant then she will have no where to go, her life will be ruined and that she will be committing suicide.... I couldn't live without her..... what do I do? and do you think she is pregnant? What should I think?..... :'(

destruxia 12/14/2012

And well, I know I didn't "finish" inside of her so that makes me feel a little better but I'm still worried....

deleted_user 12/14/2012

First off, don't freak out. stress can cuase a delay in a period, that's what happened to me. i would suggest just getting a test. if she's late for her period, it would have been long enough for a home pregnancy test to be fairly accurate. Good luck! Message me if you need anything (:

destruxia 12/15/2012

Thanks lol and well, she got her period today so everything is good and I'm relieved

deleted_user 12/18/2012

Ok so after this scare I think she should consider birth controll there are so many diffrent options shots pills patches even a small rod that goes under your skin in your arm the nueva ring so many and the pull out method your using now is not very effective so it would be good to have a back up plan

deleted_user 12/19/2012

ur 17 go buy her a preg test u will never know unless u get the test or wait for her period witch might not come if she is preg there r choices abortion or adoption in most states even a minor can get an abortion without parents knowing, its not the end of the world trust me a lot worse can happen!

deleted_user 12/21/2012

if you aren't ready for a kid, don't do it. the only time my mom got pregnant was when she was on birth control. that's why she refuses to put me on it!

ChrissyH 12/29/2012

Please get your girlfriend a pregnancy test. I had my period throughout my 2nd pregnancy.

If both of you are not ready for children, which you're not....don't have sex. There are plenty of otherwas to show your affection/love.

ChrissyH 12/29/2012

Are you aware that you can still get her pregnant even if you don't "finish" inside her???

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