Saturday was my nephew's 3rd birthday party, he's my husband's sister's son. After awhile my SIL comes up to me and asks me how I'm doing. I told her I was fine. Then she says, "So are you better now?" I said I wasn't sick, then she says, "No I mean emotionally. Now that you're pregnant again you can be your happy self again and start all over." I didn't want to make her uncomfortable so I said, "Oh yeah ." I left it at that and was pisssed the entire time, I didn't show it but I was. I didn't even know DH told his family that I'm pregnant. I knew people would act that way, like my daughter never existed. I told my husband that it bothered me and he said that other people don't see it the way I do and I know that's true, but I still can't help but be hurt by it.

My family doesn't know I'm pregnant yet and I'm not planning on telling them for some time for fear of their comments. I realize that others don't see my daughter as a real person and that this baby is a replacement to make me forget what happened and move on. I'm sure many of you experienced similar situations. What did you all do in thses situations?